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Tamara Doerksen

Grace in the midst of a full life

Published about 2 months ago • 1 min read

Smiling Through the Overlap of Joy, Memory, and Purpose

Some weeks, life fills up in the best (and busiest) ways. Yesterday was one of those days.

September 14 has always been significant for our family—it’s my daughter’s birthday, my little brother Lonny’s birthday (the namesake of Lonny’s Smile Foundation), and also the birthday of my late mother-in-law. A day of celebration, remembrance, and love that deserves space and attention.

Between honouring those moments, preparing for my upcoming trip to Saskatchewan, getting the next podcast episode ready, working on the Uprooting Trafficking series happening at the end of October, planning the next Lonny’s Smile event, and soaking up Sunday morning at my favourite coffee shop—I realized I hadn’t sent out this email yesterday.

And you know what? That’s okay.

This is what living a multi-path life and career often looks like. It’s full, layered, and sometimes something slips through. But when you’re focusing on the things that truly matter—family, purpose, and presence—missing a deadline isn’t failure. It’s life.

So here’s your gentle reminder:
✨ Give yourself grace.
✨ Smile at the beautiful mess of it all.
✨ Know that “getting it all done” isn’t the goal—living fully is.

And even if I’ll never get everything checked off the list, I wouldn’t trade this multi-path journey for anything.

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With grace and gratitude,
Tamara

20 Allister Avenue, Toronto, ON M1M3K9
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Tamara Doerksen

I'm here for the big-hearted dreamers carving out wildly multi-passionate lives. As co-host of the Rooted in Purpose podcast and a Purpose Guide, I share inspiring stories, real talk, and practical tools to help you build a career that fits all of you.

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